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Thursday, 31 December 2009

  • Okay, 2009 recap.  AKA The Year My Life Was Changed By Turkey.

    Because in January, I went to Turkey with 15 of the awesomest people I've ever met.  While there, I decided to pursue missions after college, and started my Journeyman application (which eventually became a Hands On application).  And I fell in love with Muslim people, which spurred much book reading and discussions and a friendship with Azal, a wonderful young woman from Yemen who makes mean falafel.

    Not only did my career aspirations (hah!) change, but so did my social circle.  I kind of stopped hanging out as much with my roommates, Whitney and Josephine, and instead spent every available moment with Turkey friends.  Every week of the spring semester looked like this:

    Sunday:  Go to church with Kevin (hello huge crush of 2009!)
    Monday:  Visit Chris at West Jackson and have awesome conversations (hello gut-wrenching disappointment of 2009!)
    Tuesday:  Meet with Erin, Lauren, and Kate for our book study/talk.
    Wednesday:  okay, nothing officially Turkish
    Thursday:  LOST parties!  (hello most awesome thing of 2009) A lot of us would gather to make delicious meals, cram around a laptop to watch the previous night's episode of LOST, and then we would scream and sigh and scratch our heads.  Sometimes, if our meal making had been short enough, we would watch The Office afterwards.  Best night of the week.
    Friday:  Usually I hung out with Stephanie, or was lazy and non-Turkish.
    Saturday:  Some sort of awesome Turkish adventure, be it roadtripping to Nashville, visiting a safari park, or something less eventful but just as great.

    Also noteworthy is how my vacation buddies became Turkish.  Although I lived with Josephine for three years, she never once came up to Peoria.  I knew Erin three months, and we went to St. Louis (her place) and Peoria (my place) for spring break.  Then in the fall, Stephanie and I had an I-55 adventure of a fall break.

    I guess the biggest Turkish change was when (at a Tuesday Turkish book study) Erin complained about her roommates, I said "I know exactly how you feel," and Lauren said, "Have you two ever thought of rooming together?"  We laughed it off, because that is a huge thing to awkwardly pass over.  But after a few days, the two of us were walking around campus talking about boys when I said, "Um, this is really weird, but I want you to know I've been praying about us moving in together."  She lit up and said she'd been doing the exact same thing.

    So in May of 2009, after God very obviously showed he wanted us to live together (by Erin getting approval to move off-campus even though she was only 20, and BOY do I know how difficult that is), we moved into a two bedroom apartment in Cherry Grove.  It was absolutely awesome, and she was the best roommate I've ever had.  Since she was dating Tim, he was at our place a huge amount of the week.  I was worried for maybe a couple weeks, and then we fell into an awesome family relationship, with awkward educational conversations and nipple glasses and artwork. 

    Stephanie was my best friend during the fall semester since we have the same entertainment interests (hello Very Potter Musical and LotR marathon!) and she is a catalyst for awesome adventures.  Through her I became friends with her roommates, Kevin, and his roommates.  It was super fun to have a group of girls and guys to hang out with in the woods, at church, and in Barefoots.

    So yeah, Turkey changed my world in 2009.  I'm going to Senegal in January as a direct result.  I changed roommates (which I NEVER thought would happen).  My social world was completely different.  Two of my best Turkish friends are getting married next summer, and Timbo was sweet enough to propose before I moved out, so I could celebrate with him and Erin.

    Oh yeah.  I also graduated from college.  That is kind of a big deal.

    Other than Turkey, the only thing worth mentioning is the Hughes family.  Most of this year I spent one or two evenings at their house, where Jennie made delicious food, Dusty made "That's what she said" jokes, Hannah acted like an awesome six-year-old even though she was two, and Seth latched onto me like a barnacle.  I loved going to their house and having a family.  I loved how laid back it always was, and how I never felt like a guest.  I loved that whatever was going on with my Union social life, Jennie and Dusty were constant.  And supportive, whether it was Jennie giving me loads and loads of advice or Dusty threatening to punch Kevin during one of my more confusing moments in that confusing relationship. 

    2009 rocked my socks.  I can't think of anything bad--oh wait!  I jumped off a swing, landed on my back, and went to the ER for five hours.  Then I limped for two months.  But even that was awesome, because Stephanie and Kevin showed their devotion as friends by staying in the hospital with me until 4 am, and also, I had a sweet limp for two months.  I'm too big a wuss to get hurt very often, so when I do, I enjoy it.  Hah!  My pimp limp!  I'd forgotten Dusty named it that.

    Okay, so that was kind of bad, but not really since I am mostly healed.  I guess the only real bad thing was graduating and leaving, because I made some truly great friends in Jackson.  I'm already looking forward to next summer, when I will speed down I-55 as soon as I possibly can.

Friday, 18 December 2009

  • *note:  I think I might be done with xanga.  Well, after this and possibly a 2009 summary.  After reading Extras, I just....feel weird about it.  Plus, I just don't have the interest right now.  I will do Senegal updates on that separate blog, but not here.  I'm tired of everyone knowing my thoughts and feelings.  Soooo this is it until I change my mind!*

    Just because I was feeling nostalgic and masochistic:

    Fall 2006, Freshman Year:  Met and roomed with Whit, JoJo, and Ashley Pashley.  They were my roomies and sisters and I loved them dearly and intensely.  We had loads of random adventures that were well documented with either pictures or our quote notebook.  I met Shari in band, and we had a loverly time playing saxophone and making up actions for the songs we played.  Because of her I got my job, my church, and my obsession with Joss Whedon.

    Spring 2007, Freshman Year:  Went to Vancouver, BC on a GO trip.  Loved the city, was ambivalent about my team.  Switched from an English major to Sociology.  Stopped being such a romantic idiot and more of a realistic pessimist.  Started working at University Relations.  Became friends with Nellene, and had many awesome adventures at Shari's apartment, such as my first (and only) clubbing experience....okay, that was not at her apartment....and a prom-dress casino night.  Whitney and I had a ridiculous amount of TV show marathons, including all seven seasons of Buffy, from which I became completely and totally obsessed.  Jo made up my face to look like I'd been beaten up, and we had the most brilliant picspam night ever.  I chased Ashley around with scissors, begging her to let me cut her hair.  Or at least her bangs.

    Fall 2007, Sophomore Year:  Ashley did not come back to Union, and even though she lived in Jackson, she was boyfriend obsessed and sadly absent for a lot.  Shari had graduated, but Nellene and Rachel became my Northbrook buddies.  Our fourth Craig 3 roommate ended up bailing before school started, so Whit, Jo, and I got the dorm to ourselves.  I took Intro to Bible Study with Dr. Guthrie, and because of anal-retentive 25-page projects, he asked me to work for him.  Still one of my proudest moments.

    Spring 2008, Sophomore Year:  The semester of the tornado.  Was traumatized over and over again.  Sucked.  But Whit, Jo, and I got an apartment in Cedarwood, and for a couple days we had the most wonderful cat.  Had brief depressive episode, which was luckily cured in time for my 20th birthday, which was held in high fashion with much laughter and inane games.  Most of the semester was just trauma, but I did take Gender and Sexuality, which was one of the most rockingest classes I've taken.

    Summer 2008:  Because of stupid stupidity with Res Life, we couldn't keep our apartment as of last minute, and I'd already decided to stay in Jackson and work at University Relations.  Cue Jennie and Dusty, swooping in to the rescue.  I moved into their empty pre-Seth bedroom and integrated myself into their awesome family. 

    Fall 2008, Junior Year:  Moved back on campus, but to Pollard instead of Craig.  We had a new roommate, Carah, who introduced me to the magical world of anime.  She also had a snake for a few weeks, which absolutely terrified me, as our rooms were right next to each other.  I think this is the semester that Ashley came back into our lives. 

    Spring 2009, Junior Year:  Pure awesome.  Went to Turkey on a GO trip and loved both the city and the team.  Carah did not come back, so once again it was just Whit, Jo, and me.  We had a snowstorm in Jackson, which resulted in much fun with both Craig 3ers and CA-1ers.  Had LOST parties every Thursday night, with delicious food and brain-melting TV.  Most weekends meant going somewhere awesome, be it Nashville for Turkish food or the safari park to be chased by ostriches and pet giraffes.  Kevin became my new Northbrook buddy, which was lovely because I'd been greatly slacking due to crippling shyness.  Felt like God was telling me to room with Erin, which resulted in probably the most gut-wrenching and horrific conversations I've ever had.  It sucked leaving my Craig 3 sisters, but God knew what He was doing.

    Summer 2009:  Moved into Cherry Grove apartment with Erin, and quickly fell into a laid back roomie groove.  I lived in the Guthrie's house for a couple weeks and took full advantage of their magical backyard garden and spectacumazing house.  I kept working for University Relations.  Started going to a women's Bible study at Northbrook, officially making connections way too late.  I went to Peoria to housesit for my parents for a couple weeks and found out about Senegal.

    Fall 2009:  My life revolved around either the Hughes family or the Bagby family (roomie Erin, brother Timbo, and mean sister Stephanie).  I got a whole new set of friends through Stephanie and Kevin, which meant awesome parties with awesome people, too many to name (but special shoutouts to Amber and Elizabeth--my honorary new dorm roomies-ish, Cameron--my antisocial Northbrook friend and Hunger Games enthusiast, and Seth--my HP Musical and LotR enthusiast).  School quickly irrelevant as I tried to scoop up as much time with friends as possible while battling a who-cares-they-will-all-be-gone-soon-anyway depression.  Had a rockin Fall Break with Stephanie up and down I-55.  Continued Bible study with Northbrookers and also joined Lauren's self-started Bible study, from which I came away with a passion for anti-materialism.  Went to the Hughes' as often as possible to soak up the awesomeness and love of a little girl and boy (your choice whether I mean Hannah & Seth or Jennie & Dusty).  Then I graduated, and left some of the best people on the planet.

Friday, 11 December 2009

  • Went to the Hughes' for the afternoon and then Hannah's birthday party.  My parents and grandparents came, which was nice, because I wanted to be there more than in some restaurant.  It was wonderful, and Jennie and Dusty got the HP Wand app on their iphones, which was super cool.

    And then we said goodbye, and it sucked.  I actually cried.  I didn't think I would feel anything until tomorrow, driving home.  Or a week from now, realizing it's actually over.  But no.  Jennie hugged me and I lost it.  Then she came outside and said the most wonderful things, and I lost it again.

    I am going to miss them so crazy much.  Like Jennie said, I didn't realize how much.  The thought of not being able to go over there any time I want, of not eating dinner with them, of not seeing Hannah and Seth go through all those little kid steps, of joking with Dusty and talking with Jennie, of just sitting around and watching TV....it sucks.

    It sucks.  That's all I can say.

  • Stephanie and I watched all 12 hours of the Lord of the Rings, extended editions.  Well, Steph slept through half of the first one, so really, only I did it.  But Seth and Josh came and watched from Two Towers on, so they win honorary awards.  And Cameron and Kevin stopped by for like an hour.  And Tim and Erin watched the last hour.

    It was magnificent.  I didn't get too upset at people, which is HUGE for me, because I've waited five years to watch them again, and my love is so intense (re: obsessive) that I tend to hate other people being there.  But mostly it was not distracting.

    LotR is definitely the best story ever.  I compared it to Harry Potter a lot, since that is also an intense favorite, but...LotR wins.  HP is excellent, no doubt.  But it's more clever funny awesome, and LotR is just AWESOME.  Like, awe.  It's so true and noble and heroic and epic.  Wonderful.

    And I realized why I've always been on the side of Harry-should-have-died.  It's because of Frodo, and him going to the Grey Havens at the end.  You just don't go through something that intense and world-changing and return to normal happy-happy-joy-joy life.  Sidekicks can.  Not the ones who carry the burden by themselves.  Frodo had to leave.  Harry should have too--marrying Ginny and reproducing and acting like he hadn't just died to save the world.....it doesn't make sense in my brain.

    Anyway, on the non-LotR side of things, Erin and Lauren and I went to Azal's for lunch.  She made a huge feast, and it took longer than we thought, but it was nice to see her before I left.

    I got home and the marathon started at 2.  Way later that night, Erin and Tim came home as fiancees!  It was so exciting and cute, and I knew it was going to happen, and Tim had texted me, "I am engaged!!! She said yes!!!" and we took pictures of them and it was adorable.  I would write more, but she just came in her and girl-exploded, as is her right, and now it is very late and I am very tired.

    Oh, Frodo.  My heart goes out to you.

Wednesday, 09 December 2009

  • It's my last week of college.  WEIRD.  But it has been pretty wonderful, all things considered.

    Monday morning was the University Relations breakfast feast, and all us student workers got $20 gift cards to Target.  I've used mine twice to get Starbucks deliciousness.  And I got an extra gift of a journal with notes from everyone written in it.  I don't think any other student workers have gotten goodbye gifts before--just sayin'. 

    But when I hugged everyone goodbye and drove away, I definitely wore out my mascara.  I did not expect to miss them all so much, but I've worked there almost daily for the past three years, so....yeah, I'm attached.

    Monday night I went to my last Bible study, and I got my Secret Santa gift from Janet, which was two more journals (am I that transparent?) and a Jacob bookmark (because she facebooked stalked my "I detest Edward/Bella" rant).  Then Ronda had me sit in a chair and they all sat/stood around me, touched me, and prayed for me.  Oh my word, I cried like a fool AGAIN.  I mean, I'll miss those ladies too, but I didn't expect to get that emotional.  I think it was more because it was so powerful--I've shared my heart with these ladies, and they knew incredibly specific things to pray for me, and it just felt so real and loving and perfect.  It was also really humbling, because they kept thanking God for my willingness to go, and all I could think was "NO NO NO I am awful at trusting God!  This is my biggest struggle!"  It was encouraging and made me want to do better, to live up to their expectations.  Awesome.

    Also they had a cake for me, the remains of which I got to take home.  Yum!

    Tuesday I had my last two finals.  Before the first, I stopped by Dr. Guthrie's office to say goodbye.  He bought me an awesome book that goes through each surah of the Koran and commentaries on it from both a Muslim and Christian point of view.  I will really really miss him.  The day he asked me to be his student assistant, back in sophomore year, was for sure one of the proudest moments of my life.  He's been so wonderful.

    Then before my second final I got an email and headed to my adviser's office.  Turns out I'm the best sociology major, so I get to wear a medallion during graduation!  When I was flabbergasted, Dr. Bamwine said, and I quote, "Don't you have a 4.0 or something?"  Oh, Dr. Bamwine, this is why I never used you.  But you are sweet, nonetheless.  And the awesome thing is, I'm pretty sure there's only one or two sociology majors graduating on Saturday, so I can totally brag.  Best out of one!!

    When I finished my Research Methods final and stood outside the classroom door, this huge rush of, "...I never have to do that again..." came over me, and I nearly busted out dancing right then and there.  It was a completely and totally wonderful feeling.  I've been so caught up in the leaving people part of graduating that I forgot that I FINISHED COLLEGE!  How awesome is that?

    I went over to Stephanie and Amber's, and we watched HP6.  It was not as good as before.  Maybe because Stephanie kept cooing at all the wrong characters.  It is weird--we love all of the same movies/TV shows, but we like total opposite characters.  Makes for some rocking viewing, but thankfully I do not much care for the HP movies.  Watching it did make me want to hard core read the books again.  Oh my Rowling, indeed.

    Today, Wednesday, Jennie and kids came over to pick some books.  They stayed around while I quickly showered and got ready, then we all went to Reggie's to meet up with Dusty for dinner.  I simply love that family, from Seth constantly wanting me to hold him, to Hannah making crazy faces then waiting for me to repeat them, to Jennie passionately talking about everything, to Dusty having FF7 backgrounds on his iphone.  I adore them.

    Erin and I put all our accumulated clothes/stuff in her car (full trunk and back seat!) then dropped it all off at RIFA.  We agreed that we were embarrassed to have so much to give away, but also glad that we had given so much away.

    Then I sold my textbooks and actually got a good return for once.  I went up to the office, where I proudly exclaimed, "I told you I would visit!"  Stephanie answered bitterly, "Just because you have a present."  I answered, "Well, offer me presents more often and I will visit."  Since Jason wasn't at the party on Monday, he asked me to stop by because he and Mindy had a present for me--a beautiful white, airy scarf.  Because he knew I loved scarves, so he wanted one I could wear in Africa!  I know the awesomest people.

    Then I went home and packed.  Most of everything I can pack is packed up.  It actually feels good.  Productivity makes me feel better.  Although taking down my Turkey wall was sad.  Then Stephanie came over, and we exchanged Christmas presents.  She got me a Very Potter Musical t-shirt!  I will probably wear it until it disintegrates.  I proofread her paper (poor girl still has school to do) until protesting, "*gasp*  You tricked me into doing schoolwork, and I'm done!"  She cackled.  Then Erin came in and dogpiled me.

    We got Chinese for dinner and watched a hulu season 5 episode of LOST, which was another awesome milestone that needed to be commemorated before graduating.  Erin fell asleep, and Stephanie and I watched the last episode of Glee (until April....April!!).  Now she is gone and I plan to watch loads and loads of Chuck.  Because I can.  Because I have no more textbooks to read or quizzes to study for or papers to write.  I am free!

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